Married By Master Chief, One Year Later

A year ago, I attended a Halo wedding. It was in Orlando. The bride entered the a live rendition of the Halo 3 menu music. A man dressed as Master Chief married bride and groom. Here's what happened next.

A year past their wedding, Desirai Labrada and John Henry, have become an inspiration to the surprising number of other couples who have met playing Halo, have had their experience playing their favourite game online changed in ways they didn't expect and managed to squeeze into their honeymoon a visit to the house that built Halo, Bungie Studios.

"I never get tired of telling the story," Desirai Labrada told me as I spoke to her and her husband John Henry by phone yesterday. "The story" is how Labrada and Henry fell in love playing Halo 2 over Xbox Live and were married on January 17, 2009 in a ceremony that was so Halo that every guest received a purple wedding candle in the shape of, you know, a Halo plasma grenade.

The wedding I witnessed last year had gone off with nary a hitch. Back then I was working for MTV and managed to feature the nuptials in a segment that aired on the channel. It was a semi-public event held as part of Otronicon, an annual technology festival run by Full Sail University at the Orlando Science Centre. Desirai had hatched the idea to hold it there as part of the couple's savvy efforts to get their wedding financed by donations from local companies interested in gaining some publicity. Before the wedding, Desirai and John had briefed most of the family and friends who would be attending as to what a Halo wedding was going to be like. Afterward, Desirai said, "you would have expected more 'What the hell just happend?'" But people were universally excited the couple now says. Even mum and grandma were cool with it.

MTV was the biggest outlet to feature John and Desirai, but the couple also showed up in some radio interviews and magazine articles. They had been running a website called A Match Made In Halo and began hearing from couples - many couples - who were inspired by the ceremony because they too had met while playing Halo. John and Desirai estimate that they've heard from about 50 couples who met while playing Bungie's game. Laughed Desirai: "I don't think Bungie realises how good at matchmaking they really are."

Having a Halo wedding doesn't make you world famous. You do get e-mails at two in the morning from people who saw you on TV, but apparently the forum where you come closest to feeling like a celebrity is Xbox Live. After the wedding, friend requests started flowing in. "In the beginning we were accepting a lot of friend requests," John said. "But then it got weird." John recalled receiving an Xbox friend request from a stranger and a swift follow-up slamming him for not accepting it. "He sent me the most vulgar and insulting [message]I'd ever heard," John remembered. The guy then apologised. John declined the friend request.

It wasn't just the Halo wedding that made John and Desirai popular people to bother while playing Halo. It was the friends the wedding helped them make. They started networking with people in the Halo fan community and participating in charities. As a wedding gift they were sent, by Bungie, then-rare Recon armour to use in Halo multiplayer and then they did the thing that really drew the requests, they added a Bungie employee to their friends list. The friend requests flowed on.

Desirai said she never got tired of telling that Halo wedding story, but there is something she grew weary of. "I got tired of not being able to play Halo in peace," she said. "It was like every time we signed on we got 10 requests to jump in a different room. I'd say, 'Hey, I'm playing with friends.' But they don't listen." John and Desirai started playing Halo with their profiles hidden to compensate. They started hiding their friends list from other people.

The attention wasn't all annoying. John's Gamertag would get recognised while he was in a matchmaking setup room. Suddenly people would attach their mics, he recalled. "People would say 'Oh my got, it's that guy," he recalled." Folks would notice John and Desirai's Recon armour and want to know how they got it. Desirai would sometimes have fun explaining that. "I used to get a kick out of saying, 'I was married by Master Chief," she said, chuckling. "Every now and then that would totally piss the people off and they would say, 'If you're not going to really say..."

In late summer they finally decided to go on a honeymoon. They went to the Penny Arcade Expo in Seattle. They met Major Nelson and folks working at Microsoft's internal Halo company, 343 Industries. They also got to visit Bungie Studios' lobby where they ran into me, right after the cops came.

They got Halo 3: ODST but they lost a little bit of their enthusiasm for the game. By the release of ODST, everyone they ran into online seemed to have that once-rare Recon armour and John and Desirai believe that changed the mood of play. "Now that everyone can have it, it almost feels like everyone thinks they're amazing," Desirai said. "It almost seems like everyone has an attitude." Desirai's dropped her play time a lot. John still goes at it but says that he too feels like the tone among the people playing the game feels more negative. Regardless, they are both extremely excited for the next game in the series, Halo Reach. "I can't wait for it," John said.

Desirai now works at Full Sail University, hoping to put together a graphic design company as well. John is taking classes there, learning web development and intending to work with Desirai on her business. They play Halo together on their home TV, split-screen, Desirai always on the top half. They say marriage hasn't really changed the way they play Halo. He's Halo 3 skill level is 43; she's in the 30s. They still have a knack for avenging each other's Spartan deaths. If John is on another team in the game and gets Desirai with a good move she will sometimes chide him: "Seriously did you just do that to your wife?" But she's being playful. They recently had a chance for a special moment when Desirai was out of town and they were back in that mode they were in when they met playing Halo 2 online, tethered by their headsets and Xbox Live. She was in New York, visiting friends. He was home in Florida. "Just hearing John's voice over the Xbox just mad me gaga all over again," Desirai said.

Where does a Halo couple go from here? Desirai hopes that she and John will be able to figure out cool Halo-themed anniversary gifts going forward. For their first, they had this Halo-style cake, with the initials for their gamertags.

And in the next two months, for old time's sake, they'll get back on Halo 2. Microsoft is shutting down Xbox Live for that game by April. A couple that met through Xbox Live, playing Halo 2, has got to commemorate that. And beyond? Well, need any Halo wedding tips?


    This is incredibly sad. Really REALLY sad.

      I was reading this article, slowing building my opinion up so I could phrase it into a few words and leave my mark at the bottom of the post....
      then, I got to the bottom and you had already written what I wanted to write. Wanna marry me and have a borderlands themed wedding? Sledge can be the priest and everyone gets a jelly dessert in the shape of an eridian weapon. Then we dress up like skaggs and ride into the sunset.

      Yeah, two people who are obviously in love and very happy. How pathetic LOLZ!!!!1

    his name is John Henry.

    TSCC anyone?

    Meh, good for the geeks. They seemingly are who they are and dont really care what anyone thinks, got a free wedding and some fun times.
    Should they have been married on a beach with doves to make you, a complete stranger feel better?

    I agree with Mr. Waffle.

    Sure, it's a bit kooky but you guys can go [email protected]#k yourselves.

    They love each other, they love halo, they met because of it....... then why not.

    Sometimes people are just bored of the whole typical wedding ceremony that's been repeated ad-nausium. At least this wedding was different and would've had me chuckling in places but nonetheless would've been fun and definately memorable.

    They completed their wedding on Legendary.

    What business is it of anybody else's how two people choose to have their wedding day? Judging them for actually doing what they want makes you the asshole.

    If they love each other and are truly happy with the wedding then more power to them!!!

    It cost my wife and I a bucket of money for our weddings (yes we had two on the same day due to religious and cultural reasons). Worth every penny. Some people would say that it was money that could have been saved, but it made our day very special. So bugger them

    The same goes for these two. It is their day. Not yours, not mine but theirs. They had a great day and that is what counts.

    Good on these two.

    I wanted to say something negative at first glance, but after reading the article, well, good for them. If I wasn't already married, I think I'd go for a Bad Company wedding.

    My wife walked down isle at our wedding to the piano version of Eyes on Me by Faye Wong, which the theme song to FFXIII.



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